Re: Ha ha!
@kingsmill
I think you're missing the point here.
'Crikey, you seem to think that the CRB process is foolproof (and that in depth). Sadly, it isn't. It doesn't capture all the weirdos. But, hey, it does capture some, so that's a plus point. See also below.'
Nope, I don't think the CRB check is foolproof. I think it is almost as badly implemented as the idea of an internet block. It may catch a few people, but has been shown many times, also allows huge numbers through. What I was saying is that they'll probably put refusing the filter down on a CRB check as some sort of indicator that you like porn and are therefore probably at least partway to being a kiddie fiddler. That is such a leap and so far from the truth, it defies belief, but is a likely misuse of this sort of list.
'Do you have any hard evidence to suggest that it won't do ANY good? Those that can bypass it will, those that can't (or don't know) won't. So I'd suggest it will do SOME good. Perhaps not as much as the lawmakers would like, but some. It'll certainly help out those parents who have tried to educate their children, but, you know, they are in their teens and don't listen. But kudos to you for (sort of) admitting you'd be embarrassed to have the porn filter lifted. So would I...'
I won't be in the slightest embarrassed. What's to be embarrassed about? However, I do understand that some people will be and I don't see the point of making them embarrassed for no benefit. If this was likely to work at anything about minimal level, I would say this is an acceptable exchange, but it won't. So, why make people embarrassed for no benefit? That strikes me as pretty poor behaviour and some sort of moral revenge by the holier than thou. People who think sex and naked bodies are somehow wrong and perverse etc. (from your reply, I'd include you) getting their own back on people who simply accept sex and nakedness as part of nature and life.
'It is indeed their choice. But you'd be a little gutted, wouldn't you? And you wouldn't want your mates letching over her, would you? All I'm saying is just think about the fact that it's someone's daughter the next time you have a cheeky view; it'll change your view on the world.'
No, I wouldn't. Would it embarrass me? Probably, yes. Would I dislike my friends letching over her? Probably, yes. But, I'm a good enough parent to put my embarrassment and discomfort to one side in order to support my daughter in her choice of lifestyle. It's interesting here that you identify daughters particularly, as if you view it as acceptable for a son to take part in porn, but not your daughter? What's the difference? Suggests more than a whiff of sexism on your part methinks.
'Ridiculous.'
So, you don't have any reasonable response to my comment about your daughter taking part in a Hollywood movie in less than full attire and therefore resort to offhand distain. Actually tell me why appearing in a Hollywood film naked and having sex with someone is particularly different? Are they still naked? Are they still appearing to have sex (whether actual or not)? From your earlier comments, I would suggest you would care very much about this, but don't want to undermine your case by admitting this.
'It's very difficult to respond to this without sounding anything but, but after having spent my formative years (and quite a few thereafter) in a rugby club where the attitude to porn was extremely relaxed, I'd say you were a little off here. Let's not just assume that all those in favour are 'conservative and uneasy' and those against are porn junkies that don't want to have to 'fess up.'
I'm afraid all your replies point towards my comments. You seem to be trying to take the moral high ground and am clearly (by your own comments) uneasy with nakedness or sex in general. Maybe this is as a response to the porn you saw at the rugby club. I don't know. However, I don't really need to reply to this, as your previous replies speak volumes for me.