It's a bit unfair to compare us to Asia, that's kinda oranges and apples.
* UK: Upgrading an old and extensive national network. One that at the time was doing everything the customers thought they wanted to do.
* Asia: Building a network where in a lot of cases none exists.
Which is the easier discussion: "Boss, I need a new computer because I think mine might not be fast enough in a month or two." v. "Boss I can't do any work until you get me a computer."?
Another factor is a difference in housing stock and density. A lot of Asia lives in blocks of flats so a single fibre can supply dozens of families. Most people in the UK live in individual properties so you have to run a lot more fibre. It's also easier to dig a trench in Asia whereas digging almost anything in the UK requires careful planning to avoid smashing through something important.
Sweden v UK might be a more fair comparison at least as far as upgrading an existing network is concerned but this page suggests they might also have an advantage in their housing stock. If I'm reading that right it implies that over half of dwellings serve more than one person whereas I don't think it's anywhere near that figure in the UK.
It's always a bit dodgy comparing different countries as the only conclusion you can usually draw is that 'Different environments produce different solutions which produce different results'.
However I would love to know why FTTPoD was so expensive and eventually abandoned. A couple of people in the know have said it was understandable and BT never really stood a chance but it does make me wonder.