Re: Old age + Experience != transferable skills
"And yet a multi $Bn global computerized telephone system still requires me to dial a '1' to tell it I'm calling the next city where the first 3 digits are different. It even plays me a recorded message telling me I have to dial a '1'"
Because there still needs to be a way for the telephone system to know when to take it or to pass it upstream. That's why the "1", and that's why the confusion when a local exchange like New York City is forced into 10-digit local dialing on account of excessive subscribers. They won't let you dial a 1 because doing that triggers the exchange passing, which in turn triggers long-distance rates (which depending on your phone plan are by-the-minute).
We've been trying to expand the phone system bit by bit, but we're running out of room. If you want to simplify the phone system, you're going to need a top-down restructuring of the whole works, and that's bad for people who have enough trouble maintaining their phone memories and contacts. I wouldn't mind at least some reworking to better establish telephone identities and deal with the growing problem of scam callers with fake IDs.
PS. The reason cell phone companies don't require this is because their exchanges are 10-digit by default and are basically always at least one level above local exchanges, so they're always going down into local exchanges when calling landlines.