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A prominent contributor to the open source Drupal content management system has been asked to distance himself from project because "his belief system is inconsistent with [the] project's goals." The beliefs at issue involve participation in the BDSM and Gorean (NSFW) communities, the latter involving people interested in …

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  1. Anonymous Coward
    Anonymous Coward

    Hopefully they can whip him into shape and make him submit to some guidelines, perhaps have him prostrate himself and worship at their feet...

    1. John Smith 19 Gold badge
      Meh

      "Hopefully they can whip him into shape and make him submit to some guidelines, "

      I don't think he's on the same side of the debate as Max Mosely on this matter.

      although I suspect D.Trump Esq might be quite sympathetic to his PoV.

    2. macjules

      And there was I hoping that BDSM stood for Buggered Database System Module ... having just rescued a Drupal 7.34 build and upgraded it to 7.54 complete with all ancient modules.

  2. Paul Crawford Silver badge

    Salem reunited

    So we have an example of beliefs being used against someone, but because its not, for example anti-Semitic or anti-Muslim there is little legal challenge of it not any apparent need for those in charge to fully justify their actions. Even the accusation of witchcraft these days will get little mention.

    Has his interest in Gorean role-playing caused any harm? Have there been any cases of play-partners presenting stories of abuse? If not the Drupal team should shut-the fsck up and get on with developing software, not acting as moral police for communities who are probably able to make their own minds up (no matter how odd it seems to most of us).

    1. BillG
      Gimp

      Re: Salem reunited

      Whatever happened to "Whatever happens between consenting adults..."?

      Appropriate icon chosen. If Garfield gets a lawyer, Drupal's gonna get SUCH a spanking... bad Drupal. Bad, BAD Drupal!

      When you respond to my post, click the Submit button gently. That's it, good.

      1. lorisarvendu
        Gimp

        Re: Salem reunited

        How about the Reg removing all but the first 3 words of the headline (and add an exclamation mark)?

    2. Anonymous Coward
      Pint

      @Paul

      Very well said, and don't forget feminists. I don't want to stir up a fire here but the extremists within those areas also have a tendency of proclaiming their believes as "right" and everyone who disagrees with them and speaks up is per definition guilty of harassment (at least that's the impression I constantly get).

      Still... Salem... Not so much, I think this is more about a growing display of intolerance for other people's believes which we're seeing, and it's something which somewhat worries me from time to time.

      Many people will agree that the dictators of the past (the likes of Stalin, Hitler, Hoessein) are bad news, yet many will easily stoop to their habits for themselves. I'm not talking genocide and all that monstrosity of course, but about spreading a sheer display of intolerance for any other opinion but your own.

      Makes you wonder what's next. Hmm, people who play Minecraft should obviously be considered as very childish for playing such a weird retro-like game. Obviously you can't have those around within "serious" software projects which "matter".

      How about El Reg readers? "Biting the hand that feeds IT"? Those sound very intolerant, maybe we should ban those from any "serious" projects as well.

      I'm not using Drupal myself, but if I was then this display of intolerance would definitely be reason enough for me to dump it for something else.

      1. Kristian Walsh Silver badge

        Re: @Paul

        Yeah let's not forget the feminists. They're behind everything, aren't they?

        Before you run off thinking this is uppity wimmen making your life difficult again, consider first that bigots will use any acceptable veneer to mask their prejudices, be that religion, concern for children's safety or gender equality. What the announcement said was "this person engages in sexual practices I don't approve of". This time it's wrapped in nebulous concerns about "gender equality", rather than "think of the children", but it's the same nasty sentiment that's been used before.

        Honestly, I can't say this sort of thing is my idea of fun. Much like the game of golf, I'm happy for other people to derive pleasure from it, so long as I don't have to watch or partake... or hear about it constantly.

        What these groups are doing is consensual, and primarily for sexual fun. If the histories of key members of the British Establishment has taught us anything, it's that a penchant for being tied up and whipped in the bedroom is not an indicator of being submissive and oppressed when the daylight hours arrive. Enjoying something in the bedroom doesn't mean you live the rest of your life that way (and although it help the staffing shortages in hospitals, we probably want trained medical staff at the bedside...)

        Gender equality really is a red-herring. Swap the genders (or go for same-sex pairs), and you'll find there's an equally popular subculture there.

        Taking this play, or the attitudes that go with it, outside of the bedroom and into real life would definitely be grounds for getting the boot from any sane organisation, but there is zero evidence, from this report, that he ever did this.

      2. Yautja_Cetanu

        Re: @Paul

        Just as a side note. The majority of prominent feminists in the Drupal community are on Larry's side on this one. Larry himself has done quite a bit to promote feminism and help women rise up the ranks. His private sexual life is kept quite separate from his work as a programmer.

  3. Alan J. Wylie

    HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR

    I can't hear mention of Gor without chuckling at the memory of Houseplants of Gor

    1. Anonymous Coward
      Anonymous Coward

      Re: HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR

      "I can't hear mention of Gor without chuckling at the memory of Houseplants of Gor"

      A friend once saw the Gor canon in a bookshop (neither of us had any idea what it was about) and immediately suggested that the series needed a Cockney extension - Gor Blimey and Gor Strike a Light.

      After all of these years I am now informed.

    2. Stevie
      Pint

      Re: HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR

      First time I had seen that.

    3. SquidEmperor

      Re: HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR

      Is it safe for me to click on that link at work?

      1. Alan J. Wylie

        Re: HOUSEPLANTS OF GOR

        Is it safe for me to click on that link at work?

        Should be safe enough, so long as the phrases "muchly watered" and "hanging basket" aren't going to trip a content filter.

  4. Alistair
    Gimp

    There is something ..... wacko here.

    This just sounds like a case of "I'm firing you to protect you".

    i.e -- there is more to the *reasons* than they want to let on right now. (We here in Canada know where that falls out to, having seen this in public in a huge way just a year or three ago)

    All that out of the way, someone named Purer decided to hunt up the evidence to make this fellow sound like a misogynistic rapist. </shakes head>

    J.G. was ultimately found not guilty in court. He's still an &sswipe who doesn't like being told no, but he was still found not guilty. Not part of drupal so don't know if our subject at hand is the same, but I'm quite sure there will be escalation after escalation until all of the laundry gets tossed out the window.

    1. JLV

      Re: There is something ..... wacko here.

      What are you going on about?

      Jian Ghomeshi's activities had nothing to do with this, one way or another. The man got his jollies from punching and choking his partners while having sex. The sex was consensual but the assaults were allegedly not. After an initial victim spoke out, several others joined in too, with the same complaints.

      The trial, for assault, misfired because his lawyer was able to cast doubt on whether all the victims were really unwilling. It seems to me they were, but not beyond a doubt in a court of law with a well-paid lawyer. This is always a really hard call - closed doors, no witnesses. Still... way more than 1 complainant? Seems that the balance of the doubt kinda weighed against Jian.

      There is no indication in _this_ article that there were assaults against unwilling partners. The Gor books are pretty misogynistic, I know from reading 2-3 of them in my early 20s. And, if I were a woman, I would not touch someone really believing in its "philosophy" with a 10' pole.

      But that's about it. BDSM does have its followers and... if 2 (or more) consenting adults... they should be able to do as they please. Mind you, I don't think much of the Drupal actions here, but maybe they had further reasons. Dunno.

      What I do know is that Jian's legal issues were of an entirely different nature, much more serious. So don't conflate the 2.

  5. Anonymous Coward
    Anonymous Coward

    Dries Buytaert is a joke

    Read Dries blog post carefully. He suggests there is more to the story which is what he based his decision to ask Larry to leave the project.

    This is nonsense. If he couldn't share his reasons publicly then it didn't rise to the level to ask him to leave. There are certainly non-libelous to explain why he made his decision. Dries clearly doesn't understand basic management skills.

    Personally, I would never work for or with Dries Buytaert, Acquia or have anything to do with the Drupal project. He has poisoned the well.

    1. foxyshadis

      Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

      One of the first things they pound into HR's heads is that you can't bring up why someone left, or you can be faced with a lawsuit. He brought up that it was all over being Gorean, HR (or in this case, the lead) can refute the specific claim, but they still don't get to air all the dirty laundry, especially if there's a lot of bickering and he-said-she-said.

      To me, it sounds like he was involved in a lot of internal strife, and it was him or someone else (or maybe even both). It's perfectly reasonable to fire someone who is causing office issues, unless it's for being a protected class.

      1. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

        So are YOU saying he was causing office issues?

    2. Crazy Operations Guy

      Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

      From the stories I've heard from folks working in/close to Drupal, Garfield has too big of an ego that makes him nigh-impossible to work with. Part of it is that his ego has been outweighing his contributions for a while now and that this is just the straw that broke the camel's back.

      1. Adam 52 Silver badge

        Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

        If that's the reason then fine - say you don't want him on the project. Don't say publicly it's because you think he's a sexual deviant.

      2. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

        Your source is wrong. Larry is consistent and even handed. He backs his arguments with facts and I've never seen him be abusive.

    3. alferdpacker

      Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

      To be fair... were you considering working for Drupal beforehand? Blech.

    4. macjules

      Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

      Acquia tends to be a very, VERY overpriced AWS platform offering a service that you can do pretty much cheaper with Elastic Beanstalk (No BDSM pun intended).

    5. duncan campbell
      FAIL

      Re: Dries Buytaert is a joke

      I read Dries stuff. To be short, if he programs with the same logic he writes English with he's

      got political skills that far outweigh his reasoning. I'd recommend that anyone with technical/intellectual ambitions to steer _far_the_fk_ away.

  6. Anonymous Coward
    Flame

    he was fired for ...

    ... allegedly subscribing - in his private life - to a fantasy promoting a system of beliefs outlined in a work of fiction - i.e. in novels?

    That's a very slippery slope right there.

    Based on the same logic, one can be fired for liking Alien. According to Drupal, if your boss doesn't like Alien, you're toast, because it promotes a system of beliefs some might find objectionable. Such as extra-terrestrial, fictional creatures that have acid for blood, and reproduce by forcefully inserting an egg in the host victim, who serves as food for the developing Alien egg, and dies when the egg hatches.

    Or, one can buy a Giger's Alien costume, dress up as such, and post pictures of themselves, dressed-up as the Alien, on Google or Facebook. That's a fireable offense?

    I hope he gets a very good lawyer. Drupal are wankers.

    1. dan1980

      Re: he was fired for ...

      "He was fired for allegedly subscribing - in his private life - to a fantasy promoting a system of beliefs outlined in a work of fiction . . ."

      Well, I don't think he was 'fired' per se, but he is being pressured to leave. That said, based on the stated reason for applying that pressure, they've established a reason to ostracise someone for being Christian, or Muslim, or Hindu.

      Actually, on Islam, if you are Muslim and subscribe to the idea that a woman's testimony is worth less than a man's, surely that is a view that would also be counter to the Drupal stance on 'gender equality'.

      1. Destroy All Monsters Silver badge

        Re: he was fired for ...

        Actually, on Islam, if you are Muslim and subscribe to the idea that a woman's testimony is worth less than a man's, surely that is a view that would also be counter to the Drupal stance on 'gender equality'.

        Going down that road will make SJW's heads explode.

        Let's go down that road.

        1. Anonymous Coward
          Anonymous Coward

          Re: he was fired for ...

          @DAM No one will want to go down that road for fear of being branded "islamophobic".

    2. Paul Hovnanian Silver badge

      Re: he was fired for ...

      "one can be fired for liking Alien"

      Of course unfortunate antics may ensue on 'Take your dog to work' day.

      1. SquidEmperor

        Re: he was fired for ...

        I'll never forget "role play" day at PWC where I reenacted my favorite scene from "The Thing". Despite the dog being only a stray I was shown the door and never got my air ram and garden shears back...

  7. wolfetone Silver badge

    It's 2017 and there are still prudes in the world.

    It's disgusting, especially when I bet those in the project get intimate with a man/woman ask for their toes to be sucked or one of their orifices to be licked.

    Maybe, just maybe, if they spent less time banning people for getting their kicks in niche places they might just be able to deliver a CMS that isn't a bag of rotten frogs churned through a cows arse.

    1. dan1980

      @wolfetone

      Oh, there are prudes everywhere but, worse, there is a pervasive mockery of any sexual behaviour beyond some vague notion of 'normal' sex.

      Sure, it's fun to make jokes at Donald Trump's expense but why are comedians making jokes about the reports that were published about his activities with Russian prostitutes? If he is harping on about the sanctity of marriage then by all means call out hypocrisy (should the report be proven) but what is happening is that an adult is being ridiculed for indulging in a particular kink with other consenting adults.

      The particular (alleged) behaviour obviously lends itself to all manner of cheap puns so it becomes irresistible but such ridicule is utterly backwards, not to mention thoroughly hypocritical when voiced by those who ostensibly support the LBGT(etc..) community.

      Indeed, some comedians have admitted that, while the report is unverified and this is all just unproven allegation, the subject is too funny not to use. They are saying that the act itself is worthy of ridicule.

      What those comedians are doing is getting a cheap laugh by shaming someone's private sexual preferences.

      1. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        "Sure, it's fun to make jokes at Donald Trump's expense but why are comedians making jokes about the reports that were published about his activities with Russian prostitutes?"

        The only concern should be if the person has an important position that could be exploited by a blackmailer.

        It is the condemnatory attitudes of a society to something - that hand the blackmailer their weapon.

        President Sukarno of Indonesia was subject to a KGB sting like the one alleged about Trump. When shown the film of his encounter - he apparently requested several copies for Indonesia's cinemas.

        https://defence.pk/pdf/threads/the-cia-and-kgb-both-tried-to-blackmail-sukarno-with-sex-tapes.459041/

      2. Pascal Monett Silver badge

        @ dan1980

        "What those comedians are doing is getting a cheap laugh by shaming someone's private sexual preferences."

        Not just any someone, the President of the United States. The most public person on this planet - one who is still supposed to be an example of moral rectitude, even in these days of almost-anything-goes. And if Clinton could risk impeachment for a simple blowjob, then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table.

        1. John G Imrie
          WTF?

          then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table

          He had sex on a table?

          1. Anonymous Coward
            Anonymous Coward

            Re: then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table

            "Basically just a bunch of misogynist arseholes using kink as an excuse to be arseholes."

            A pool table perhaps - better than a warm apple pie? The right height and a soft covering.

            Many years ago two young friends were into doing it outdoors. They reported that corn stubble was very uncomfortable - and sea water washed away all the natural lubrication.

            1. Anonymous Coward
              Anonymous Coward

              Re: then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table

              re outdoors

              And another not often mentioned thing is that often insects get attracted - e.g. flies buzzing around that have taken a fancy to the various fluids involved, another downside of alfresco action

              1. Anonymous Coward
                Anonymous Coward

                Re: then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table

                "another downside of alfresco action"

                There's also sand for putting grit in the works on a beach. Plus the chance of sunburn on a sunny day.

          2. Bandikoto

            Re: then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table

            I hope he didn't break a pretty glass bowl, like the last time I had sex on a table.

        2. wolfetone Silver badge

          Re: @ dan1980

          "And if Clinton could risk impeachment for a simple blowjob, then presidential sex with prostitutes is definitely on the table."

          Think he risked more than the blowjob with his 22 flights on Epstiens private jet, but that's none of my business.

        3. dan1980

          Re: @ dan1980

          @Pascal Monett

          ". . . one who is still supposed to be an example of moral rectitude . . ."

          I agree - our leaders should indeed be beacons of morality. In a perfect world. BUT, I do not agree that a person's sexual preferences (within the confines of activities between consenting adults) should form any part of the judgement of someone's morals.

          It's this unhealthy connection of sexuality and morality that holds so much progress back because the sentiment becomes one of distrust - anyone who has sexual preferences that deviate from some bullshit 'norm' can't be fully trusted. It's bigotry - these people aren't exactly like me so I can't trust that they'll act like me.

          Part of it is religious, of course, but that doesn't explain the shame and ridicule poured out by, ostensibly, liberal comedians and commentators.

          On the note of blackmail, if it turns out that (now) President Trump did engage in the alleged actions and is being blackmailed by Russia, then the American people (and not only them) are partly to blame. It's only leverage if the people judge each other negatively based on their private, sexual activities.

          It's perverse - you can be manifestly unqualified, an inveterate liar, an unrepentant bigot and a dangerous narcissist but if you get a kick out of urination in a sexual setting then, well, that's just unacceptable and renders you unfit for public office.

      3. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        "...but what is happening is that an adult is being ridiculed for indulging in a particular kink with other consenting adults."

        I think you'll find a significant number of prostitutes are not consenting.

      4. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        I enjoy the sort of activities The Donald were alleged to have engaged in, and worse. I still find the whole thing hilarious! Just because you are a pervert doesn't mean you lack a sense of humor.

        1. dan1980

          @AC

          "I enjoy the sort of activities The Donald [was] alleged to have engaged in, and worse."

          What do you mean "worse". Those activities are not objectively bad to start with. They're not even that uncommon, in absolute terms.

          I did read in a previous article here, many moons ago, that those activities are enjoyed by some 1% of the population. That may not sound like much but it means that if you enjoy that and step into a standard NY subway car on your way to work, chances are that there is another person - in that same car - who shares your preference.

          Likewise many other preferences.

          The idea that some sexual preference is "worse" than some other is exactly the problem - that there is a set of good, normal, decent and acceptable sexualities and that others are therefore 'bad' and unacceptable - in varying degrees.

          The only test of whether someone's sexual activity is acceptable is whether the participants are consensting*. Note that 'harm' is not a valid test as some people enjoy pain as part of their pleasure and, again, so long as it is consensual, we're all good.

          * - And of age, but that is factored into the legal concept of consensus.

    2. Adam 52 Silver badge

      I hate to break it to you, but it's 2017 and the prudes are in the ascendency.

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      2. Anonymous Coward
        Anonymous Coward

        Sure as hell is. When some people think putting on lipstick is a worse crime than chopping someone's head off, then something is seriously wrong. When some western liberalised/empowered individuals start to take cues from similar moralistic thinking, no matter how far removed it seems at this time from Talibanism, we have to watch out carefully.

        Firing people for sexual preferences / fantasies that are non of your business in the first place? WTF.

        Perhaps not put your nose where it doesn't belong? I can see someone else getting fired over this...

  8. Stuart 22

    Good code is good code

    We all have a problem with Hitler. But if hey, had he come up with a good algorithm it would have been bonkers not to adopt it,

    Good is good, Bad is bad. No one, even him, is exclusive to either. Use what is good, destroy what is evil was the obviois path to me. But for Drupal management?

    1. ratfox

      Re: Good code is good code

      Developers sometimes must interact with other people. In some cases, if their personality is toxic enough, it doesn't matter how good their code is because they can destroy an organization with petty infighting.

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